Introducing AmuZia… (VIDEOS inside!!)

Last night was a big night for me! For years, I’ve had this little dream in my heart of singing for a band. I’ve been listening to my favorite songs in my car and thinking, “I have to sing this song somewhere, someday, with this strange little ache I couldn’t shake!!!” But very suddenly, in the last month, it all just kinda happened and all the sudden I’m in a band. A homeschooling mom who’s in a band. A freak of nature, oh yeah, that’s me.

So last night we had our first gig! It actually happened really fast, the coming-together of a band. I was invited to open for this band about a month ago, but they wanted me to just sing with karaoke tracks. Yeah, that’s okay, but something in me said, “It’s time! Find them!!” :-) So I went on a little search, equipped with exactly ZERO knowledge of what I’d need to have a decent “band.” An eye doctor/Coldplay enthusiast keyboardist, an IT Specialist/Blues Brothers-style guitarist, my favorite worship pastor and pocketful of sunshine (and bass player!) in Japan, a spirited young sailor/drummer from our church (but he is on the ship right now, so we had the wonderfully kind Kumiko stand in for him last night–domo arigato gozaimasu, Kumiko!!!), and then a missionary/undercover guitar phenom. The pieces came together quickly and unexpectedly, just barely in time for last night. We actually had our first meet-the-band dinner and a brief rehearsal last Monday night, less than a week ago! And then the day before yesterday, we had an extended rehearsal early in the morning. And then last night, after only two practices, we stepped on stage, and….it was a blast!!! The name of our band is AmuZia, Our eye-doctor/keyboardist Lauren came up with it; AmuZia is a play on words, a double-entendre too (Amuse ya, get it?). Gotta love double entendres. (At least this nerdy English teacher warmed to it immediately!)

So I thought you MIGHT like to see some video of what a fun night we had! Here ya go! XOXO

And then here are the kids having an absolutely hysterical time dancing to the band we opened for:

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Benjamin, Prince of Blogworthiness


There’s a new word in town at the Cash Manor. It’s “blogworthy.” When one of the kids does/says something particularly poignant or funny, they know there’s a chance that Queen Mom will deem it with the blogworthy seal of approval. Ah, the sweet look of elation, coupled with rolling-eyed, “Mom!” that fills their little faces when I have extended the blogworthy scepter.

Well, lately, Ben honestly does or says something blog-worhty on a fairly regular basis. I’m having to up the standard a bit, collecting his cute little idiosyncrasies like pebbles in my heart’s pocket, waiting for the right time to pull them back out and examine them. Well, it’s time.

I’ve been storing up a few fun ones, just for you guys:

1) The other day, Ben had a pair of pajama pants on that kept falling down, and he did not like it one little bit. He kept pulling them up over and over again, and then he suddenly made this horrible, indescribable growling noise, eliciting from me a, “What in the world?” The answer I received was an emphatic, “I”M MAD AT MY PANTS!!!!”

2) Ben’s a passionate little guy. We’ve talked about this before. We’ve been trying to talk about his emotions a lot more lately, to help him learn to communicate instead of using his astounding brute force to express himself. I can’t even remember the catalyst, but one day last week he was really angry about something, and huffing and puffing and growling and making his weird faces, and I told him he needed to take a deep breath and get control of himself. He responded very passionately, “But everything in my BODY is telling me to act this way!”

3) Just now at dinner, we were doing our daily “High/Low” discussion (you know, what was your high today, what was your low today?), and somehow we rabbit-trailed into Claire being tired today because she couldn’t go to sleep last night and then Ben said, “Sometimes I can’t go to sleep because my thinking is telling me to talk to Adam instead.”

My priceless little prince. :-)

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A Bitter Pill That Will Save Lives

This is hard truth to even sit through, seriously. An even harder truth to live by. But it resonated so deeply within me that I couldn’t keep it from you, my beloved friends and family.

This is true. It’s hard, especially the part about the little girl, but it’s true.

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I Wrote You a Letter

A few short weeks ago, Claire’s beloved dance teacher of 3 years moved back to the States. Claire, along with about 100 other teeny tiny dancers, was heart-broken. She’s really quite serious about ballet, and when she heard the news about Miss Jillian leaving, she dejectedly asked me, “How can I be a dancer without a teacher?” She had a good point. Before Miss Jillian got here and ambitiously started an entire dance program on our base, there was NOTHING. Seriously, NOTHING. It’s not easy to come by an English-speakng, professional dance instructor around here. She remembers when there was no dancing on Atsugi Base, and she was more than a little bit worried that her dancing days were done.

So I told her to do something about it. “I’m only 7!” she protested. “So what?” I argued. “Sweet, pretty 7 year-olds can sometimes make more difference than the grown-ups, sweetie.” And that’s when we rocked out to this awesome video for a few minutes and had an impromptu Bible application lesson for the day… After this, she looked like she might be into this, but what could SHE do?

WELL…..that week, Claire’s writing lesson (she’s homeschooled, in case you haven’t caught that from previous blogs) happened to be on persuasive writing. She was to learn how to write a persuasive “hypothetical” letter. So I taught her the basics of persuasive writing (OREO- Opinion, Reasons, Explanation, Opinion-restated). And she crafted a beautifully handwritten front-and-back letter to the “top guys” on base who would (or wouldn’t) bother to work on finding these kids a new dance instructor. Her letter was pitch perfect, just the right emotion to her plea, and very professional, for a 7 year-old. :-) A few days later, we hand-delivered these letters to those two gentlemen to whom they were addressed. I coached her to look them in the eye, introduce herself, stick out her hand to shake theirs, and then tell them that she wrote this letter just for them. She did it. One of them read it right there on the spot, shook her hand again, and promised her that he’d do his very best to oblige her. She beamed from ear to ear all the way home.

Then the other day, on the huge, flashing marquis by the movie theater on base, there shouted: “Dance Instructor Wanted. Please call….” Claire saw it, and eyes-on-fire-with-excitement asked, “DID I DO THAT??? IS THAT BECAUSE OF MY LETTER?” Now maybe (a little maybe, based on my past experience with how things go on base) they would have done that with or without her little letter, but do you even have to guess how I answered her?

“Oh yes, sweet girl, that was your letter.”

And through her transparent baby blues, I saw something switch on inside her: she suddenly believed that little-old-her can make a real difference in this world.

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The Most Precious Thing

I just came across a little “sermon” I wrote a few years ago for a group of ladies, and it was a good refresher course for me. I thought this might be helpful/encouraging/challenging to a soul or two out there:

An ancient Scottish legend tells the story of a shepherd boy tending a few straggling sheep on the side of a mountain. One day he saw at his feet a beautiful flower–one that was more beautiful than any he had ever seen before. The boy knelt down on his knees, scooped the flower in his hands, and held it close to his eyes, drinking in its beauty. The boy then heard a noise, and looked up before him. There he saw a great stone mountain opening up right before his eyes. The sun began to shine on the inside of the mountain, and his eyes widened as he saw the sparkling of the beautiful gems and precious metals that it contained.

With the flower in his hands, the shepherd boy rushed inside. Laying the flower down, he began to gather gold, silver and precious gems in his arms. Finally, with all that his arms could carry, the boy turned and started to leave the great cavern. Suddenly a voice said to him, “Don’t forget the best.”

Thinking that perhaps he had overlooked some choice piece of treasure, the boy turned around and quickly picked up additional pieces of priceless treasure. As his arms literally overflowed with wealth, he began to run out of the great mountainous vault. Again the voice said, “Don’t forget the best.”

But the boy’s arms were filled, and he hurried outside. All of a sudden, the precious metals and stones turned to dust. The boy looked around and saw the great stone mountain closing its doors.

A third time the shepherd boy heard the voice, and this time it said, “You forgot the best. For the beautiful flower is the key to the treasure vault of the mountain.”

Ladies, we will not be able to truly grasp any precious thing in this lifetime, unless we can grasp the unsurpassing beauty of the MOST precious thing in this lifetime.

Scripture: Luke 10: 38-42
38.“Now as they were traveling along, He entered a certain village; and a woman named Martha welcomed Him into her home,
39. And she had a sister named Mary, who moreover was listening to the Lord’s word, seated at His feet
40. But Martha was distracted with all her preparations; and she came up to Him, and said, ‘Lord, do You not care that my sister has left me to do all the serving alone? Then tell her to help me.’
41. But the Lord answered and said to her, ‘Martha, Martha, you are worried and bothered about so many things;
42. but only a few things are really necessary, really only one, for Mary has chosen the good part, which shall not be taken away from her.’”

POINTS
#1) Mary had a perfectly legitimate reason to be busy and distracted!
Have you ever “bitten off more than you could chew” when you invited people over for a meal or a party, and then found yourself acting like a monster (at least on the inside) or not even getting to enjoy your guests?
Look back to v. 38, “Now as THEY were traveling along…” Who do you think the THEY are??? Jesus and his 12 disciples at LEAST, possibly even more people. They didn’t exactly have Bethany Pizza Hut Delivery or Stouffer’s Frozen Lasagnas in the freezer back then! This poor woman probably had to grind up some flour to make homemade bread, kill a few chickens (or maybe even a goat!) and serve them up, milk a cow, gather and crush some grapes, and who knows what else! And not to mention clean the house—after all, this is possibly the Messiah coming to her home!!

Verse 40 says it all: “Martha was distracted by all the preparations that had to be made.” The Greek word translated as distracted literally means “to be pulled, dragged away.” Something was pulling her, dragging her attention away from the Messiah! And there were over a dozen hungry people in her house, needing to be fed, to be entertained. You see, it wasn’t her fault! Or was it?

#2) We have too often falsely dichotomized Mary and Martha, and have perhaps consequently falsely categorized ourselves (perhaps in self-fulfilling prophesy) as a Martha or a Mary.
Martha and Mary are not on opposite ends of the spectrum, with Martha doing all the serving and Mary doing all the adoring. You don’t have to choose which one you will be.

In v. 40, when Martha complains to Jesus that Mary “hath left me to do all the serving alone,” we learn from the original verb tense hath left that indeed Mary had been helping Martha with the preparations and serving, but had stopped at Jesus’ arrival.

There comes a point and time, a holy moment, LADIES, when it is no longer appropriate for us to be hostess/servant/helper: when we MUST ascend (or descend, depending on your persepctive), in the midst of all that still needs to be done, to STOP OURSELVES AMIDST all the activity in our life and heart, and become simply, beautifully:

lover of God
listener
worshipper
adoring child,
quiet
at the beautiful, pierced feet of
Jesus.

Because ladies, He IS the Messiah, the Word of God made flesh, the Living Water, the Way, the Truth, the Life, the Resurrection. And if we really believe that, not just lip service, but REALLY believe that—we MUST, we WILL sit in that place. But Martha didn’t believe it quite yet. Do you? Will you be “about serving” or will you be “about Him?”

What do I want my legacy to be—that I was a busy, busy, busy mom? Or that I was the kind of Mom who served God with all her heart, yet always made time for the most important things, and especially the ONE important thing, my Savior.

#3) There is NOTHING, NOTHING, NOTHING more urgent in your life than sitting at the feet of Jesus each and every day, drinking in His Word, His beauty, His love.

41. But the Lord answered and said to her, ‘Martha, Martha, you are worried and bothered about so many things;42. but only a few things are really necessary, really only one, for Mary has chosen the good part, which shall not be taken away from her.’”

MEMORIZE WITH ME THIS WEEK: Matthew 16:26 (NLT):
26 And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul?[a] Is anything worth more than your soul?

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A Note To My Spirited Child

One of the strangest privileges and miracles of parenting, I think, is to know each of your children deeply. We have four children with four completely different temperaments, four starkly contrasting sets of strengths and weaknesses, four little bundles of electric joy, each of whom provide their own specific delights to their parents. Today, we shall focus on Benjamin.

Oh my Benjamin,

You are such a delight to me. You are my tiny little mirror. You are much more like me than any of your siblings, which simultaneously delights me and freaks me out. You are exuberant. You have no filter. You leak this contagious energy out every pore. Sometimes the joy and energy just literally explodes out of you in strange, spontaneous concoctions of happily contorted facial expressions, spasmatic dances, and oddish animal sounds. You are what I would have been like if I had been a boy. I’ve always had my language to express those deeply-felt, urgent utterances. But you’re a boy, you poor thing. And we all know girls are more generally more proficient in the gift of gab than boys. (Okay, with the exception of a few author-types. Whatever.)

Benjamin, you challenge me every single stinkin’ day to be a better mom–to hold my tongue, to be patient, to keep my cool, to be quiet and still sometimes. Your spirit is so much bigger than your little body; sometimes it seems like you can’t stand being trapped in that adorably tiny frame. Not to worry, little one. Growth spurts will come soon enough. Forgive your sentimental mother for a moment and let me tell you a secret. I used to sing to you when you were a baby a song that I made up, and sometimes I still sneak into your room at night (especially after the hard days) and sing it over you and pray for you (no problem, since you sleep like you’re in a coma.) It goes like this (to the tune of “Little Lamb” from Gypsy, if you care):

Baby Ben, Baby Ben, do you know how loved you are?
Baby Ben, Baby Ben, the one who made all the stars
made you, Baby Ben, fashioned in special ways
Baby Ben, Baby Ben, you’ll be loved for all your days…
You’ll be loved for all your days…
Baby Ben….

Maybe the tune of that song will linger lovely in your head when you’re older; maybe you’ll not know quite where that tune came from. But it came from your mommy’s heart. I love you forever, you little stinker.

Love,
Mommy

So today, there were four separate occasions when Benjamin was just….well, pure Benjamin. And I have to share them with you and with the rest of the Cashclan-loving world, of course:

1) So we’re at the doctor’s office waiting room, and Ben strikes up a conversation with a kind-looking passerby. He traps her with his cuteness, telling her everything in the whole wide world about himself (the basics first, then moving on the hobbies, foods he likes/dislikes, etc.) She seemed like she didn’t mind too terribly, and I had two other boys to deal with at the same time, so I just let him go. He’s a social butterfly. Gotta let him fly sometimes! So ten minutes later (seriously), he’s still got this lady captivated and he’s still talking 90 miles a minute. And then suddenly he just looks at her and says, “Can I stop talking to you now?” The lady CRACKS UP. So do I.

2) Today I sang at a lovely ceremony for a retiring Colonel in the Army, and after I finished my first song, which was a dedication song from the Colonel to her husband, my four year-old Ben SHOUTS emphatically across the silent room at me, “EXCELLENT!”

3) After this ceremony, we headed to the food court for some dinner, where Ben requested Mac N’ Cheese (which he’d eat every night of the week if we let him). But the place that sells the Mac N’ Cheese was under renovation, with one of those big blue tarps hanging all over the front of the little restaurant to hide the mess. So Ben got a cheeseburger. But man, he had a watchful eye on the Mac N’ Cheese place, though we weren’t sure why. Suddenly, a Japanese man with a hardhat on emerged from the blue tarped area, and he crossed our path, and Ben shouted out to him (and startled him at first!): “Hey!!! Stop!!! What’s going on behind there at the Mac N’ Cheese place????” The Japanese man just laughed. So did we. :-)

4) As we were leaving the food court, there was a man in line at the ATM dressed VERY strangely. He was a tall, dark-skinned man and he was wearing very weather-inappropriate clothes, and ugly ones. In particular, he was wearing a blood-red, ankle length leather trench coat. (It was probably 90 degrees outside!) Ben SHOUTS, “What IS that??” I knew exactly what he was talking about, but I hurried him along and said, “That’s an ATM machine, where people can get money from their bank accounts.” Still within this man’s earshot, Ben (loudly) clarifies, “No mom, that weird man! What’s that?”

I’m learning a lot about Benjamin lately. He’s my only kid who inspires me particularly to read parenting books. :-) And one of the things I’m learning is that he’s not just a naughty little lamb. He’s spirited. He’s got the spunk. And the spunk can set the world on fire, if it’s hidden in Christ Jesus. I am so happy and humbled to be his mom.

Benny Boo, I love you so much.

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